Friday, November 19, 2010

Greetings on Day 10 after surgery

I appreciate your concern and prayer for this pile of dust now resting in Fort Worth, Texas. I know how rumors can spread, so thought I needed to set the record straight concerning my condition.

The surgery was performed early Wednesday morning, November 10, using a local anesthetic rather than being "put to sleep." That evening, the hospital brought me delicious noodles and sausage, green beans, bread, etc. In the night hours, nausea set in. Due to the surgery pain, I could not move -- could not find a bed pan - - could not find the buzzer for the nurse -- and all of that delicious food came up and up and up and up. What a mess. Nurses were not happy, nor was I.

From that point on I was plagued with daily nausea. Getting up to walk brought increased nausea and limited use of my new hip. Things were not off to a good start. :)

As Friday and Saturday came, medications helped lessen the nausea and brought pain under control. I was able to be discharged to the Pool's home, for which we are extremely grateful.

Sunday was a blur.

This was so unlike my FIRST surgery that replaced my right hip. The first one was a "piece of cake." I was speaking to my Father about the difference in the surgeries, the pain level, the progress, etc.

The dear God of glory began to show me some things I needed to re-learn and pass on to my friends interested in my progress because of the spiritual applications.

I entered my FIRST surgery with great caution, asking many questions of God and physicians. The Bible word would be "circumspectly" (Ephesians 5:15)

I entered this last surgery with "self confidence." I KNEW the procedures, the RULES, the expectations, the people involved, etc., but it took a curve I was not prepared for. Shame on me.

Isn't SELF CONFIDENCE at the foundation of most if not all of our failures? We KNOW how to handle this situation, this Scripture, this song, this saint, this sermon, this skirmish, my spouse, this student, this sibling, . . . and on and on and on . . . ad infinitum . . . ad nauseum . . . forgetting that WITHOUT HIM we can do nothing at all. (John 15:5b)

SELF CONFIDENCE needs to be treated as an enemy, with self-crucifixion (Galatians 2:20) and self-emptiness (Philippians 2:7-8) as the only solutions. God gives gracious GRACE to the humble, but resists the proud.

My next blog entry will begin to explain the trail the Master has brought me down.

Thank you for your love and prayerful support.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Update from Pastor

Sorry this update is so late in coming. Pastor called me today and gave me an update to pass on.

He was released from the hospital on Saturday evening. Sunday was NOT a good day. We don't know if it's the medication or what but he was very nauseous and no appetite at all.

Each day he has gotten a little better. Good news is that he is in NO pain when he sits or lays down....it is only when he stands or tries to get around that there is much pain and nausea. So there are many naps throughout the day : )

Pastor still has no appetite but he said that won't hurt him a bit : ) Thank you for all the prayers and he is very grateful to his dear bride for putting up with him and taking care of him. The Pools are a tremendous blessing, as always.

As you know, Pastor is very ready to be home with the people he loves! He was ready the day after he left : )

He is not currently on "top side" but he said that he prays this teaches him patience and gives him more compassion on those who are hurting.

God is good....all the time!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Day One - after surgery

I spoke with Pastor Duffett this morning. He said that while the pain is better than it was yesterday, he is still hurting pretty bad. The pain level for this hip is significantly greater than the first one. I asked my dad why the pain was so great this time and not last time and he said "That is the very FIRST thing I am going to ask my doctor when he arrives!"

He did get up and walk with the therapist this morning. His doctor is supposed to stop by to see him today and this will be the first time they have talked together since before the surgery, so after that, we should know more about how the surgery went.

Thank you all for your prayers and concern. Though Pastor is in pain, this too shall pass :) I will do my best to keep you updated on his progress.

We sure love Pastor & Mrs. Duffett and want them home SOON! Please keep praying that the pain is not any worse than it has to be and that his recovery will astound the medical team in such a way that everyone who sees it will KNOW that only GOD could have done that!

God is good....all the time!